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The Wake Forest Magic

It’s Homecoming, and a dismal and rainy forecast, unfortunately.  Wherever you are, send some good vibes and sunshine our way.  We have a lot of alumni from the 50th anniversary reunion class (and earlier) down to the 5th year reunion class who all want to have a great time at Mother So Dear.  Instead of this “liquid sunshine,” I am sure they’d prefer the real thing.

I was sitting in on a presentation this morning with Michele Gillespie, Dean of the College, and she was talking about the Wake Forest Magic.  Most of our students have felt that magic at times – as have our faculty and staff or administrators.  It’s hard to put your finger on what that magic is, but you know it when you feel it.

Dean Gillespie talked about how our students have some moment of revelation, or clarity.  A moment when something changed for that student.  Changed the way the student looked at Wake Forest, or looked at their capacity to learn, or changed their view of the world.

She was in a room of alumni and some WF parents and a few people offered up their “Magic Moment.”  One expression I quite liked from that discussion was someone realizing they had the power to learn anything, AND they had the people around them to help them do it.

For those of you P’19s, it is probably too soon for your Deacs to have experienced the Magic Moment.  But if you have sophomores, juniors, or seniors, that might be a good conversation to have at Thanksgiving or during winter break.  What have been your transformational moments at Wake Forest?  It would be good to get them to reflect on it – and I bet it would be fun for you to hear it.

Hope you are wearing black and gold in celebration of a [very rainy] Black and Gold Friday.  And remember to talk to your kids and tell them you love them every Friday, or send them a Deacon Greeting.

— by Betsy Chapman

Sports Matter, But Is Something the Matter with Sports?

There are a good many Deacs who are interested in sports – either playing sports via Intramural or Club sports, going to live sporting events from our WFU teams, or watching other college or pro sports on TV.  We have a speaker coming up tomorrow that might interest your sporty Deacs.

This could be of equal interest to students interested in journalism and media portrayal of sports.  If this sounds like something your students would enjoy attending, make sure they know about it!  Details below and a  bio of Mr. Lipsyte from his ESPN days is here.

— by Betsy Chapman

Robert Lipsyte – Sports Matter, But Is Something the Matter with Sports?

Tuesday, September 15 at 6:30pm to 8:00pm

Porter Byrum Welcome Center, Kulynych Auditorium 1

In this public talk, Robert Lipsyte–a highly acclaimed sports journalist, reporter, columnist, fiction and nonfiction author, television scriptwriter, radio commentator, and recently retired ESPN Ombudsman–will call on his years of experience to help us consider why sports matter, but ponder is something the matter with sports?

A Few Words on Academics

First football game of the season was lastnight.  It was a warm one, but the important part is that the Deacs won!  Score was 41-3; recap here.  I’d take a repeat of that score every game day, thank you very much :)

It’s the end of the first full week of classes and probably a good time to say a few things about academics.

The first is about student academic integrity and parental involvement in academics.  We assume that all parents and family members know this, but as a reminder there should never be a situation where a parent or family member is doing academic work for the student.  Your students are held to the Honor Code and their work must be their own. Dr. David Levy, Associate Dean of the College and Chair, Honor and Ethics Council, wrote a great piece on this topic that I commend to all our families.

The second is about students accessing resources that can help them in their classes.  Any time a student is having difficulty in a class, he or she should go to the professor’s office hours for assistance.  There are other great and FREE resources on campus: the Learning Assistance Center (for tutoring), the Math Center, the Chem Center, the Writing Center.

There are also occasional seminars or workshops on academics that are available to aid your students.  There is a series coming up starting next week that may be of interest.  This one is How to Prevent a Panic Attack on Your First College Science Exam.  (Where on earth was this when I was a student?!?!)

The third academic point is about using time wisely while you are a student.  There are a lot of things to do in college – classes and labs, studying and homework, clubs and activities, intramural sports or exercise, hanging out with friends, etc.  How you spend your time is important.  At the beginning of the semester, students (of all class years) are trying to figure out what the right balance is for them – work and play, sleep and fun, etc.  They’ll get there.

One of my favorite sayings about time is from an old Tolstoy story: “There is only one time that is important — Now! It is the most important time because it is the only time when we have any power” (full version of this great short story is here for any fellow English major types).  So urge your Deacs to make good choices in how they spend their time (and good choices in everything else), but let the choices be theirs.  They will learn from trial and error and need to navigate their own path.

If you haven’t sent a care package to your Deac, think about sending one.  They already miss your homecooked food, I assure you.  And give them a call today :)

As a reminder, administrative offices are closed on Monday for Labor Day.  Classes in the college will run as scheduled unless professors indicated otherwise on their class syllabus.  This is a good time to remind parents of how to get in touch for urgent situations that cannot wait until Tuesday.  If you have an urgent need to reach someone at the university because you have a concern that must be addressed quickly, University Police is our 24/7 contact.  They can assess the situation and determine who best to address your concern. The 24-hour contact number for University Police is 336.758.5591 (non emergency) or 336.758.5911 (emergency). They can get in touch with on-call duty staff 24-hours/day.

Have a great long weekend, Deac families!

— by Betsy Chapman

Black and Gold Friday

Happy Black and Gold Friday, Deac families.  If you are sporting WFU colors or official WFU apparel where you are, you get a gold star for the day!  Please join us in wearing WFU colors every Friday and maybe it will help you feel here in spirit.

Lots of things to mention today.

– First: the weather.  It is GLORIOUS.  At the start of the workday here (8:30 am) it was cool and delightful.  Sunny, but not hot.  It was the kind of day to sit outside and enjoy just how beautiful it was – and I saw some colleages and students doing just that.

– The first full week of class is coming to a close.  I spent the morning in a first-year residence hall.  The Faculty Fellows (faculty who commit to spend some time each week in a freshman residence hall to get to know students, offer programming etc.) of this particular hall had a table of free breakfasty foods and drinks set up in the lobby, and they invited academic advisers for those residents to join.  So we had a merry band of folks who would greet the students as they came and went, encouraged them to grab a donut or some coffee or fruit (bananas were a huge hit!)  There were a lot of students who were surprised and delighted to find free food, and I will say that the students were all incredibly polite.  Families, you raised these early risers well!

– From conversations I had (or overheard) in the res hall, some of our first-years are a bit shell shocked at the amount of work they have.  Or they are worried that everyone else in their new class had AP/IB/Honors level [insert class here] and they did not and are worried about falling behind.  And/or they are looking at their hallmates and classmates and thinking ‘holy mackerel, they all seem smarter than I am.  I don’t belong here.’  Deep breaths, parents.  This. Happens. Every. Year.   Our newest students are thrown into a new environment and they are not feeling secure yet – and I was the same way when I was here.  So if you are hearing that, tell them it is normal to be nervous in new situations.  And rather than carry around that panic and worry yourself, go back to our tried and true Stop, Drop, and Roll method.  Don’t give them the answer or fix their issue – but ask them questions that help them do it themselves.  ‘Gosh honey, during Orientation did anyone talk about academic resources to help you?  Where might you look to find them?  Which people on campus have you talked to?’ etc.

– I’ll wager that many of our Deacs are going to want to let off some steam this weekend.  The first several weeks of school can be times of experimentation and excess for all classes, but can be especially so among our first-year students.  There is a good reference online, What Parents Need to Know About College Drinking, that provides some tips for freshmen parents; look for Parents of a College Freshmen – Staying Involved on page 5.  It’s worth a read – and not just for the P’19s out there.  P’16s-18s still want to be engaging with your students about alcohol and reducing high risk behaviors.

– Related to the above, a frequent Friday tip from the Daily Deac is to contact your students sometime today.  Research by Meg Small at Penn State showed parental communication on weekends (30 minutes or more of general conversations not specifically related to substance use) decreased the high risk use of alcohol on those weekends.  More detail here – but this is a good practice.  That subtle reminder of home, family love and expectations, etc. might be the thing that helps temper behavior.

– And let’s close today on a high note.  Walking along the south part of campus, our terrific student organization DoRAK (Do Random Acts of Kindness) had chalked some great positive messages on the sidewalks.  These were things like “You’re going to do well!”  “You are beautiful just as you are!” etc.  Rock on, DoRAK!  Everyone needs a boost sometimes, and your chalk might have made someone’s day.  I’ll add a couple things in that vein below that I particularly like from

Have a great weekend, Deac families!

— by Betsy Chapman

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FDOC and Arrive and Thrive Today at 4 pm

It’s been a busy few days with Move-In and Orientation activities, as well as academic advising.  So the Daily Deac is playing catch up and there is much to cover

FDOC – Today is what our Deacs refer to as FDOC (First Day of Classes) – so your students will be attending their first classes of the semester today.  Today is also when freshmen can add or drop classes, so there will be some schedule shuffling going on too.  Apropos of the FDOC, Dean Christy Buchanan of the Office of Academic Advising has posted a list of the Top 10 Things Academically Successful Students Do.  This is good reading for new and returning students.

arrive and thriveArrive and Thrive – Today from 4-6 pm on the Manchester Plaza (Mag Quad, near the first-year student residence halls) is Arrive and Thrive, our FDOC event to help celebrate the eight dimensions of wellbeing we hope your students (and faculty and staff too) will try to grow and nurture.  Arrive and Thrive has stations for each of the eight dimensions of wellbeing, free food, games and activities, giveaways and more.  Urge your Deacs to come to it.  The more they pay attention to their wellbeing and learn good practices and self-care, the better off they will be in college.

New Student Convocation – was yesterday afternoon in Wait Chapel.  This was a mandatory program for first-years.  Convocations are sort of like an academic ceremony to open officially the semester and impart some wisdom and advice to the new students.  There were a number of great speakers, and there is no way I can do justice to them all.  But here are a few pithy snippets:

From Katherine Albanese (’16), the student representative on the Committee on Orientation and Lower Division Advising: she told a story of how you accidentally build community with people who keep the same schedule as you (people who are always getting coffee the same time you are, riding the shuttle the same time you are).  She became friends with one of the shuttle drivers who would take her (and others) home from the ZSR Library late; they would chat and soon she’d hear stories about his kids (or grandkids?) and he would know when she had tests coming up.  She said of this driver, “he didn’t have to care, but he chose to.”  And that made a difference.  She told the new students:  “you may be the person that defines someone else’s Wake Forest existence” – so embrace this community and be your best self to all you meet.

From President Hatch [paraphrasing]: one of the best things new students can do is learn to focus and concentrate.  “Learning requires silence and solitude,” so disconnect from social media when you need to work and put the distractions away.  That said, college is also a time for asking big questions – who am I? in what do I believe? to what end shall I devote my talents? – so in addition to learning in the classroom, students should endeavor to discover themselves and their philosophy of life.  [Related note: Dr. Hatch also sent a message to the entire campus community this morning with some advice as well as exciting events happening this fall.]

From Adam Hammer (’16), Student Government President: “every jump at Wake Forest – whether you take it or are pushed – is an opportunity to grow.”  He urged our students to “think about the person you want to be, push yourself, jump in, lead, serve humanity, dream big.  Go get it, period!”

From Michele Gillespie, Dean of the College: “use your engagement to get outside of yourself and outside of your own head.  Break down the comfortable and the familiar and seize a fuller knowledge of the world.”

From Dean Christy Buchanan: “everyone has the ability to succeed here.  There will be peaks and valleys.  Difficulty isn’t a sign you don’t belong. We all have setbacks and challenges [but] people don’t wear their challenges on their sleeves.  Learn and grow from the hard times.”

Dean Buchanan then announced the winners of the Award for Excellence in Advising – congratulations to Dr. Al Rives (’76, P’08, ’11), Associate Teaching Professor in Chemistry, a co-winner of the award.

— by Betsy Chapman

And today we have a PS to the Daily Deac, written by Minta McNally (’72, P’02, ’06), Associate Vice President for University Advancement and Executive Director of Parent Programs

Normally the Daily Deac is authored by my colleague Betsy Chapman, but today I have asked to take the reins because she would not blog about this herself. Yesterday at New Student Convocation, Betsy was one of two co-recipients of the Award for Excellence in Academic Advising, sharing the honor with Dr. Al Rives (’76, P’08, ’11) of the department of Chemistry.  This award is given to outstanding advisers to freshmen and sophomores (prior to the declaration of a major, when students get a faculty adviser in their major).

I can tell you from many years of working together that Betsy goes out of her way to offer guidance and support to her students – not only academic but also emotional and social – while at the same time helping empower them to make good decisions on their own and learn how best to advocate for themselves.  She guides students to make good choices in class selection and is well-versed in both requirements and policies that impact students.

She considers it a privilege to be an undergraduate advisor and takes seriously the responsibilities that come with it.  Despite a very full and demanding schedule as the Director of Parent Programs and Communications, Betsy always makes time for her own advisees as well as others who seek her counsel.

I have heard many compliments about the Daily Deac from Wake Forest parents during my travel to New Student Receptions and other WFU events.   Many of you have told me how much you value the blog and the connection to campus that it brings.  So I wanted to be sure our larger Wake Forest family could know of the meaningful work Betsy does with our students.

Go Deacs!




A Peek Inside

Today we are giving you a peek behind closed doors to get the inside scoop on internal processes.  Earlier in July, our incoming first year students self-registered for half of their fall class schedule.  The second half of their schedule is selected for them using information our new students provided on their Course Preference Survey (which asks about potential majors, electives they might want to consider, preferences in subject areas, possible prerequisites needed for potential majors, and more).

You might wonder how all that gets accomplished, slotting in all the first years for classes.  Well, it is a remarkably collaborative process.  A small army of staff from the Office of Academic Advising, Registrar’s office, select faculty and academic department staff (maybe even more folks than that) come together in a collaborative fashion to read through the Course Preference Surveys and find the best fits for students.

I was part of the schedule-completion team a few years ago, and I can tell you that great care is taken to try and rightly place every student.  Usually there was one staff member reading the Course Preference Survey and trying to suggest courses, and a second staff member would check online to see if the suggested course could fit into a student’s schedule without upending classes the student had selected for himself/herself.  When the student’s first choice was not available, the ‘reader’ of the CPS would go down to the next possible option and the ‘checker of the system/registration specialist’ would look for the class and try to find sections that did not conflict, and so on.

This operation was not just a ‘plug people into any class at all and be done with it.’  It was much more purposeful and deliberate than that.  If we saw a student who had accidentally requested two courses on the CPS that we knew were not wise to take in the same semester (such as the First Year Seminar and the Writing 111 class), we’d make sure to find a different elective so he or she would have a manageable load.  In instances where a student’s expressed preferences were full, we tried to read through the CPS and think about what might be a ‘close second’ to what they had wanted.

The process was also very equitable.  In the first pass, we’d give each student just one additional class, and then all the forms got shuffled and randomized so we could be fair about mixing up the order for the second class we’d add to their schedules.  That way, no one was stuck with being ‘last to get classes’.  Surely there have been even more enhancements to the process with each passing year.

Here’s a few shots of some of the staff working on registration this year.

— by Betsy Chapman
Wake Forest faculty join staff members from the registrar's office and academic advising to provide a personal touch by individually  registering first year students for classes based on their preferences, in Reynolda Hall on Monday, July 27, 2015.

Wake Forest faculty join staff members from the registrar’s office and academic advising to provide a personal touch by individually registering first year students for classes based on their preferences, in Reynolda Hall on Monday, July 27, 2015.

Wake Forest faculty join staff members from the registrar's office and academic advising to provide a personal touch by individually  registering first year students for classes based on their preferences, in Reynolda Hall on Monday, July 27, 2015.  Theatre professor John Friedenberg works with Melissa Cumbia and Minh Nguyen on a student's schedule.

Wake Forest faculty join staff members from the registrar’s office and academic advising to provide a personal touch by individually registering first year students for classes based on their preferences, in Reynolda Hall on Monday, July 27, 2015. Theatre professor John Friedenberg works with Melissa Cumbia and Minh Nguyen on a student’s schedule.

Wake Forest faculty join staff members from the registrar's office and academic advising to provide a personal touch by individually  registering first year students for classes based on their preferences, in Reynolda Hall on Monday, July 27, 2015.  Math professor Frank Moore talks with Sasha Suzuki about a student's schedule.

Wake Forest faculty join staff members from the registrar’s office and academic advising to provide a personal touch by individually registering first year students for classes based on their preferences, in Reynolda Hall on Monday, July 27, 2015. Math professor Frank Moore talks with Sasha Suzuki about a student’s schedule.

Wake Forest faculty join staff members from the registrar's office and academic advising to provide a personal touch by individually  registering first year students for classes based on their preferences, in Reynolda Hall on Monday, July 27, 2015.  Theatre professor John Friedenberg works with Melissa Cumbia and Minh Nguyen on a student's schedule.

Wake Forest faculty join staff members from the registrar’s office and academic advising to provide a personal touch by individually registering first year students for classes based on their preferences, in Reynolda Hall on Monday, July 27, 2015. Theatre professor John Friedenberg works with Melissa Cumbia and Minh Nguyen on a student’s schedule.


Books to Consider

Now that it is nearly August and we’re rolling towards the last of the summer hurrahs, maybe you are looking for something to read on the beach or the plane or in the car as you head to a vacation destination.   Well, there is a great list of eye-opening, thought-provoking books already online for your perusal: you could dive into the books our incoming freshmen participating in Project Wake are reading.  In fact, if your incoming freshman is doing Project Wake, maybe you want to read the same book and have a family book discussion?

Of course you don’t have to have a freshman to read these.  Maybe you want to read something that makes you feel like you are going back to college (or going in the first place).  Something that is not in your normal repertoire, but gives you an opportuntity to learn about subjects you hadn’t explored before.

A caveat:  these are books that will make you think.  May challenge you.  May provoke strong or uncomfortable feelings.  They will almost certainly expose you to different opinions and experiences from what you have known.  They might take you out of your comfort zone.  But my hunch is they will stretch your mind in new ways.

There is a reason these books were chosen for Project Wake.  A college education is about challenging the mind.  It isn’t about just giving students safe, sanitized, comfortable material all of the time.  We would be doing your students an injustice if we didn’t ask them to learn about things that are new, maybe even unsettling.  The world is a complicated place, and we all bring different experiences, backgrounds, and voices to our little corners of the world.   Your students will be better prepared for Life After Wake Forest if they are well versed in people, cultures, traditions, experiences, etc. that are not their own.  It will deepen their understanding of others, perhaps their empathy and compassion too.

Here are the titles and links to the books if you want to purchase online.  Parents, if you are coming for Move-In, there are also copies of the books available in the Bookstore.

— by Betsy Chapman

Accidents of Providence, by Stacia Brown – Rachel Lockyer is pregnant, and the father of the baby cannot marry her. Not only is he married to someone else, but now he is imprisoned for treason. The tides of political change are sweeping 17th century England as Cromwell rules the land, but in the absence of a king a kind of religious absolutism is taking control of the justice system.

A Hope in the Unseen, by Ron Suskind – This book follows Cedric Jennings’ imposing journey from a failing inner-city Washington, DC high school to the Ivy Leagues.

All the Light We Cannot See, by Anthony Doerr – This beautifully written book describes the intersection of two lives during World War II. Marie-Laurie is a blind young woman from France, which later becomes occupied by Germany. Werner is an orphan from Germany who is recruited into the Nazi forces.

Americanah, by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie – This award-winning novel by Nigerian author Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie deals with race and identity in the late twentieth and early twenty-first century.

Bad Feminist, by Roxane Gay – Bad Feminist is a smart, fun and important contribution to contemporary feminist debates. This series of essays deals with everything from her love of Sweet Valley High Books, to her domination of Scrabble tournaments, to her survival of sexual assault, to her challenges as a young, black woman college professor.

Boy, Snow, Bird: A Novel, by Helen Oyeyemi – An adaptation of the classic Snow White story set in 1950s Massachusetts, Oyeyemi’s novel raises questions about identity, race, vanity, and perception.

Caught: The Prison State and the Lockdown of American Politics, by Marie Gottschalk – This book will expose students to the rise of prison-culture in the US in a comparative/global context.

Disgraced, by Ayad Akhtar – Winner of the 2013 Pulitzer Prize for Drama, Disgraced is a highly provocative play about stereotypes of religious and ethnic identity in contemporary America. It grapples with competing ideas of Muslim identity.

Everything that Rises Must Converge: Stories (1965), by Flannery O’Connor – This is O’Connor’s second short story collection, published posthumously in 1965. The stories will interest students who find themselves grappling with the many categories of difference that intersected with O’Connor’s life and writing: religious, regional, racial, medical, and gendered.

Finding Zero: A Mathematician’s Odyssey to Uncover the Origins of Numbers, by Amir D. Aczel – The invention of numbers is one of the greatest achievements of humankind, evidenced by their acceptance into all facets of everyday life.  The number zero was an abstraction that came relatively late in the history of numerology.  Its discovery had a significant impact on ideas.

Gray Mountain, by John Grisham – This book is set in western Virginia and the main character is a young attorney. The book follows her experiences with issues surrounding coal mine families in Appalachia, including, poverty, health, and environmentalism.

Mountains Beyond Mountains: The Quest of Dr. Paul Farmer, A Man Who Would Cure the World, by Tracy Kidder – This is the story of Dr. Paul Farmer and his groundbreaking work with Partners in Health in Haiti.  Farmer’s story, as told by Pulitzer Prize winning author, Tracy Kidder, takes us from Harvard to Haiti and beyond as he pursues his calling to cure infectious diseases and bring life-saving medical care to poor communities.

Quiet, by Susan Cain – Introverts can get a bad rap in our society. They can be classified only as “shy”, and because of the different ways their strengths manifest, can be overlooked.  Introverts themselves can also miss opportunities to build on their strengths, thinking they need to behave, think, and speak more like extroverts.  (Aside: this book was a gamechanger in my life.  If you are an introvert – or you love an introvert, work with one at the office, etc. – I cannot recommend this book enough).

Sacred Ground:  Pluralism, Prejudice, and the Promise of America, by Eboo Patel – In this prophetic and thought-provoking book, Eboo Patel speaks to the necessary work that must be done to support, strengthen, and promote religious pluralism in the United States.

Sacred Hunger, by Barry Unsworth – A beautiful and unsettling historical novel of the Atlantic slave trade. The book follows William Kemp, a failing merchant who pins his last hope to a slave ship; his son whose love of a rich young woman demands a fortune; and his nephew, a broken man who has lost all he has loved, who sails as the ship’s doctor.

Talking to Strangers, by Danielle Allen – This book revisits an important time in American history and education, Brown vs Board of Education, and invites us to reflect on the need to engage those like and unlike us.

The Book of My Lives, by Aleksandar Hemon – A finalist for the National Book Critics Circle Award, The Book of My Lives is a memoir published in 2014 by the writer Aleksandar Hemon, who came to Chicago in his mid-twenties just before the outbreak of the bloody civil war in Bosnia separated Hemon from his family and his earlier life in Sarajevo.

The Immortal life of Henrietta Lacks, by Rebecca Skloot – This historical account describes the source of the HeLa cells. Henrietta Lacks was an African American, tobacco farmer, who had a sample of her tumor cells removed without her permission and disseminated throughout the scientific community. The HeLa cells have enabled innumerous scientific discoveries in the last 60 years including over 60,000 publications.  (Aside: also a gamechanger for me in understanding socioeconomic and racial experiences in the US.  And if you really want to read something truly outstanding on that topic, try The Warmth of Other Suns by Isabel Wilkerson.  It showed me a side of American history I never learned).

The Invention of Wings, by Sue Monk Kidd – This fictionalized story of the real-life Sarah Grimke gives an eye-opening and compelling view into the lives of slave owners and slaves in the 1800s.

Think Like a Freak, by Steven Levitt and Stephen Dubner – This book attempts to examine non-obvious approaches to problem solving. The book isn’t valuable for the solutions to the problems it discusses, but, rather, for the processes it outlines for approaching problems.

This Changes Everything: Capitalism vs The Climate, by Naomi Klein – Deploying thorough reporting and compelling storytelling, Naomi Klein argues that the very system that has enabled mankind to prosper — capitalism and the fossil-fuel economy — is now imperiling the health of the earth.

Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, by Robert Pirzig – This is the story of a summer motorcycle trip by a father and son but it is also a reflection on how we perceive and judge the value of seemingly conflicting aspects of science and art, objective and subjective, in our world.









Family Weekend Registration, Project Wake, and Intellectual Wellbeing

Today’s Daily Deac is a trifecta of upcoming events.

1. Family Weekend

Mark your calendars, Deac families.  Tomorrow (July 15) is when Family Weekend registration goes live.  It’s advertised on the Family Weekend website as registration opening at 10 am (Eastern), so set your timers on your calendar or phone and order your tickets tomorrow.  Events can and do sell out, so register sooner rather than later if you want to have your choice of events and options.

As I hope you know already, Family Weekend will be held October 2-4.  Mark your calendars and make your travel and hotel arrangements if you haven’t already.  Note that the football game time will not be set until 10 days before due to television scheduling.  Game times can range from noon until the evening and everywhere in between.  Family Weekend is a world-class weekend with tons of great activities.  Please do come!

So that is an event announcement for all parents and families.  This one is just for parents of incoming first-year students.

2.  Project Wake

This year, our new students have the opportunity to take part in something called Project Wake: Exploring Difference, Embracing Diversity.  Sign ups are due by July 17th.  Project Wake is an optional program, and  one I highly recommend.  It functions similar to a book club in that students will choose one of 25 possible books to read, they read the book this summer and then at a specified time during Orientation, their reading group comes together to discuss the book.

This is a wonderful way for your students to begin the process of engaging in intellectual dialogue.  They will meet other students in a small group setting (helping to build their social network) and they will also have the benefit of connecting with the faculty or staff member who is leading the discussion.  It’s always a good thing to be able to have an adult in your corner when you are starting out in college – someone who knows you, who you could go to for advice and counsel if needed, etc.

The books are very interesting too.  You might have read some of them in your own book clubs at home (my book club had read The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks – for me a game-changer in understanding a part of our racial and medical ethics history I had not previously known).  I can also highly recommend Quiet by Susan Cain, which is about introverts (I am one) living in an extrovert ideal.  I read this in my 40s and wish I had read it in my 20s so I could be a little more comfortable in my skin when I was your students’ age.

So if you are a parent or family member of an incoming first-year, do encourage them to join a Project Wake group. Yesterday the Office of Academic Advising had sent out information about Project Wake to students.

3.  Thrive Event on FDOC (First Day of Classes)

This idea of engaging in reading groups and discussions (outside of class activities) is an example of ways our students can exercise their intellectual wellbeing.  Intellectual wellbeing is one of the eight dimensions of wellbeing we are focusing on in Thrive, our ongoing efforts to promote holistic wellbeing on campus.  We’re going to have a Thrive event on the first day of classes (see below).  I was at a meeting the other day with our intellectual wellbeing team to talk about possible activities our group might do for the Thrive event.  All the Thrive teams are working on some fun activities, food, and displays to showcase how students can attend to the eight dimensions of wellbeing.   Whether your Deac is a new freshman or a senior, you’ll want to tell them to go to the Thrive event on August 25th for sure.  More details on that closer to the time.

Three events worth participating in – for you and/or for your Deacs.

— by Betsy Chapman

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2nd Annual
THRIVE Fall Event
Tuesday, August 25th – First Day of Class
Manchester Plaza*

Column A, Column B

Deep. Breaths.

For all our new P’19s, there might be some flutters in your stomachs (or more likely your Deacs’ stomachs) as the new students self-register for up to 8 hours of their fall schedules this week.  Upperclassmen parents, you probably remember the drill yourselves.

This tends to be an anxiety-producer all around:  what should I take? am I choosing the right things? what if what I want is closed before I can register? how do I know what is the best thing to do?

Stop, and take a deep breath.  Or two, or three.

There’s lots of resources out there to understand the academic requirementsregistration process, and advising process – and links on the left menus show places to get more info.  And there are some videos at the top of the Virtual New Student Reception page plus this email from the Office of Academic Advising to the first-years about registration.

The good news for our freshman – you haven’t fulfilled any of your Basic or Divisional requirements yet, so pretty much anything you take within those groups will advance you toward a degree.  The other good news: things tend to work out – so trust the process.

A note to students (and parents!) though, that you might not get your first choice of classes your first semester, because sophomores, juniors, and seniors registered before you (as they should).  So, students, make your choices given your best available options at the time.

Aside: this is a mantra I stress over and over to all the students I meet with:  life is about choices.  And while it would be great to have the luxury of choosing from Column A and Column B every time, sometimes you can choose one, not both.  [I jokingly refer to this as the Betsy Binary.]  So if you have to choose Column A or Column B (not both), rather than lament the fact you can only choose one, just make your best decision and move on, knowing that we can’t have everything exactly as we wish all the time.

Before each registration period while I was a student at Wake, I tried to craft my Dream Schedule (A list), but also had a B-list and a C-list and a D-list schedule, so I had backup plans and options.  If you get lucky, you’ll get some A- and B-list items the first year – if not, your backup classes are still things that will check off requirements on the Course Completion Checklist and move you towards your degree.

In terms of choosing classes, there may be some courses you’ll put your foot down about and say “I must have ENGXXX class with Dr. YYY and if I don’t get it this time, I’ll try again next semester.”  There may be other times when you say “I wanted REL111 with Dr. ZZZ but it is closed.  But I see an opening for REL111 with Dr. AAA and I’m OK with that.”

Part of the exercise of going to college and growing into adulthood is about evaluating options and making choices.  Parents, you can help here by reminding your students that sometimes life is about getting “A or B” not “A and B” – and that’s OK.

— by Betsy Chapman


Summer Management Program

As the first session of summer school closes down, there is a program that you may not know about that bears highlighting.  It’s our Summer Management Program (affectionately referred to for years as ‘business boot camp for non-business majors’).  It is a program for students who are majoring in anything other than business and it is designed to give an intensive look into business concepts and skills.

In my role as an academic adviser, I see a lot of students who think they want to major in business, and something along the way changes their mind.  It could be that one of the three prerequisite classes (Math 111, Economics 150, and Accounting 111) do not agree with them, or it could be that their overall GPA is not as competitive as the rest of the applicant pool, or it may be that they don’t want to commit to two full years of mostly business classes (whereas on the liberal arts side, there is a lot more room to explore other classes and areas of interest).

Sometimes these changed-their-minds-about-business-school students feel regret that they can’t follow their original path, others are relieved.  Many still want to dip a toe in the business pond and learn something about business – and that’s where this program comes in.  It is a wonderful choice for students who aren’t ready, willing, or able to commit to a business major, but want to learn the basics and have a solid working knowledge of business concepts.

There is a news story online about the Summer Management Program – well worth your read (or your student’s) if this might be a class worth exploring.

— by Betsy Chapman